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Saturday 20 March 2010

A 'NEW" Relationship Philosophy

Often you meet a couple who are so different in personality. One is stronger than the other. One has a stronger personality. One is more confident, more sure etc...

Basically one always seems to be more dominant than the other - apparently that helps strike a balance. The weakness in one is balanced out by the strength of the other...

BULLSH*T I say : How about if we view it this way...

'A' seems stronger than the 'B' because 'B' is SO much weaker / LESS strong.


'A's strength is not measured according to the merits that 'A' has earned for him/herself...

Think of an elephant and an ant. In real terms an elephant is far stronger. But facts tell us that an ant can carry up to 50 times its on weight.

I'm pretty sure an elephant can NOT carry 50 times its own weight


If you see people and relationships in this way, it may give you an entirely new view on things... and as profound as it may sound...

... perhaps a whole new view on LIFE ...

Essentially we are ALL weak, and weakness is a very HUMBLING condition

Relationships are all about managing our weaknesses

There should be a course on "Weakness Management"

Good Night

3 comments:

kd said...

I believe that it is only when u truly acknowledge and accept ur weaknesses and surrender to it that u r able to find ur true inner strength...

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JH said...

i think relationship is about respecting each other... it doesn't matter who's weak or strong...just complement each other.